Its About the Passion within it. The strong will-power and determination that will carry you through
Its not about watching the America's top model or Project runway, and the next thing u told your mom and dad that U have been inspired by them and U plan to do Fashion design or U wanna be a model.
At that moment they thought they have what it takes to become the next top model or the next fashion designer. In their heart they are so
Sadly, they have failed. Their passion isn't suffice for them to carry on, they gave up in the middle of difficulties.
I heard a lot of friends and Church-mate gave up.
Most of them are from Urban areas, maybe due to the fact that they are born with a golden spoon or they just have a rich dad.
They have lots of resources and chances, but they flung away the chances and the opportunities. A good background will be a starting point for them, they seems to take things for granted. Never the less you can see the struggle of a person from poor/middle class is completely different from them.
I am born in a middle class family, so whatever I do i have to do it with all my heart and soul, because opportunity doesn't come twice for us. If academically we are weak or we are not serious with life and that is the end of our future. we do not have a second chance to like the rich kids who can change their major degree, that frequent as a result they have ambiguous future. You can try to ask them a few questions like " So what course are you interested in??" , " How do you project yourself in 5 years time the road ", " In the process of pursuing your own career how/what do you do in order to archive those goals that u have set.
Last time I do envy them that they are born in such a rich, noble family. As time goes by I have stopped comparing myself and those rich kids. I have started to appreciate what I have, instead of complaining what I don't have. Learn to count those little blessing I have, the friends(relationship) that I have, The small and yet warm house I have.Don't be surprise they will give you a blank look, and they reply you ,'actually I am still figuring out which course should I take ' . Living in a tough environment make you a stronger person, compare to those who have been living in a prosperous environment. Through close observation, we can see that the stress threshold of young people-the lower class people seems to be higher compare those young people-rich. However, I cannot stereotype the rich or the poor will behave like this or act like that?? It really depend on the individual's character and attitude towards life. One word human are COMPLICATED !!
I have thanked God, sometime he allow the bad thing or tough situation to happen in our Life.
To shape us, mold us, strengthen us, to change us .... always remember all things have its reason.
Whether we are born in rich or poor background, learn to appreciate everything in your life great or small, and we cherish the friendship and relationship that you have built.
Love Life , Cherish It
Live for the moment, Forget the past
For no one know the Future
For our life on earth is temporary.
Appreciate people around you before they fade away.
PS: I like Katy Perry =), Just let the firework of your Life to inspire other and prepare to be inspired