I would say yes and No.
Probably depends how One allocate their time
Get into doing interesting self development stuffs,
would help them to get over the feeling of Self pity, loneliness...
As long one gets their hands dirty and busy they will not have time to think about
oh I am the most lonely person in the Planet.
This is how I get along with it.
Most of my time I spent on myself,
Time alone with myself, yes..... Does't mean I am perfect
I don't feel lonely, At times I feel really lonely but
these are the stuffs I normally do.
I get myself occupied at the gym( exercise), some nights will have night at the streets or park.
Tried some favorite cooking recipe saw online,
Set goals and small steps archiving it,
Daily journal writings get my thoughts under control.
Pray, talk to God, I find it more therapeutic than talking to human, hahah doesn't mean I don't talk to People, be selective talk to people who are willing to listen.
Get involved in community work, get to know people who have the same vision...
Recently I get involve in church stuffs, serving as Pianist for the church.... NO idea how will it go for long term just get myself occupied...
So these are some of the ways how I curb with loneliness, beside constant grouping activities
Time alone, helps you reflects and recap what have happened, I found that I think more when alone compare to group, It helps personal development.
Feel free to drop me comments tell me how you curb with loneliness?
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